We need to rewire our perception of fear and failure.⠀⠀⠀
If you're not scared of embarking on a new journey, you're not getting outside your box and ultimately you're not growing.⠀
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🙅♀️Pain doesn't mean you're actually suffering.⠀
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You think you're suffering because you're resisting the pain.
It's Mercury Retrograde on Monday and a lot of past issues are coming back even though I thought I've worked them out.
Clearly not.⠀
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But this time instead of being sucked into the usually emotional habits, I paused and simply notice.
I'm NOT the same person so I need to change my response patterns otherwise it becomes predictable future.
Those of us who have lived long enough know that the cycle is so predictable.⠀
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Especially in a long term relationship. If I say this, I'll get this reaction and so on.
If it's a toxic pattern you want to break, then you need to change the response pattern.⠀
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This is to rewire your nervous system.
To retrain your body to neurologically to function at another emotional level.
Emotional response are habits.
Breaking habits are hard.
So it's not good enough to just bite your tongue and not say the usual things.⠀
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You also need to tell yourself a different story.
Different Story = Difference Life.
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Ok? Ok!⠀
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© The Woman of Influence by Elyse-Anne ♥ Become the Woman You've Always Wanted to Be
You know you've gifts and talents that can make a difference in the world. You know you're here for a reason so it's time to get your name out there and stop being God's best secret.
The world needs you to be you. You're worth Millions and Millions more!
Ooooh! Please excuse any grammar or spelling errors and let us know if you find any.
If you're not scared of embarking on a new journey, you're not getting outside your box and ultimately you're not growing.⠀
⠀
🙅♀️Pain doesn't mean you're actually suffering.⠀
⠀
You think you're suffering because you're resisting the pain.
Photo Credit Allef Vinicius.
It's Mercury Retrograde on Monday and a lot of past issues are coming back even though I thought I've worked them out.
Clearly not.⠀
⠀
But this time instead of being sucked into the usually emotional habits, I paused and simply notice.
I'm NOT the same person so I need to change my response patterns otherwise it becomes predictable future.
Those of us who have lived long enough know that the cycle is so predictable.⠀
⠀
Especially in a long term relationship. If I say this, I'll get this reaction and so on.
If it's a toxic pattern you want to break, then you need to change the response pattern.⠀
⠀
This is to rewire your nervous system.
To retrain your body to neurologically to function at another emotional level.
Emotional response are habits.
Breaking habits are hard.
So it's not good enough to just bite your tongue and not say the usual things.⠀
⠀
You also need to tell yourself a different story.
Different Story = Difference Life.
⠀
Ok? Ok!⠀
⠀
© The Woman of Influence by Elyse-Anne ♥ Become the Woman You've Always Wanted to Be
You know you've gifts and talents that can make a difference in the world. You know you're here for a reason so it's time to get your name out there and stop being God's best secret.
The world needs you to be you. You're worth Millions and Millions more!
Ooooh! Please excuse any grammar or spelling errors and let us know if you find any.
